Do our best for others while we are in their company. It may be hard to do at times, but it pays off so much in the moments of having to say goodbye. Because there is no lament and no regrets.
The pain of lamentation and regret is strong and mysterious in the moments of contemplating the goodbye and living without that person, role, or pet in our life.
The sacrifices made for others to do our best when we were with them, all comes to help us in those difficult moments. A help of tranquility and equanimity.
The pain of the goodbye is often in the lamentation and regrets. Where we don't have time anymore to have repaired what needed repairing.
Our pain is mostly about how the person or pet will be after they leave us. If they have died they are in the hands of the Being and the masters, if they have left voluntarily they are most likely happy or their happiness in their own hands now.
It could be that we suffer because their well-being is no longer under our control or influence and we feel that they will be worse-off?
True they may suffer as we will or are - but all suffering passes...
"No one is ever really gone". This is a truth. Our sensorial mind does not see this, but this is known to our essence.
From our side a person or pet never leaves us because the essence of a person never just ceases to exist, and as essences we are all connected and we will see each other again. This is a law of the cosmos. May God give us the consciousness to remember, but if not our essence will remember and at moments we will feel that.
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