At home with parents we may have anger related to the motor centre, like how we are lazy and our parents want us to do more around the house. At work we may have anger related to the intellectual centre - such as due to as others not understanding our idea or agreeing with our proposal or plan. We may also have anger of the emotional centre when being unfairly treated by people etc.
These types of anger, we can deal with if they do not repeat too often.
However, with our wife or husband there is anger that is all together different. It is an anger that is mixed with the sexual energy and that gives it a very different quality. One that is much more explosive and intense than the other angers.
This anger also involves the other centres, not only the sexual centre, giving anger access to the energies of the whole human machine. It is an anger to be reckoned with and eliminated.
To speak calm and reasonable words - putting the emphasis and negative emotional colour aside is a real big help.
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