That's the puzzling thing. Why do we decide to follow and get identified with the fantasy?
Because it feels so pleasing, a pleasant emotion (but later turns sour when we come back to reality), or because we desire that so much or we are lazy to work for it, or we like the easy way of things all the time.
But anyway we lose ourselves, we lose our reality, we step aside from our real selves and identify, that is take on the identity of the person in the fantasy. Which is usually ourselves with some added qualities or abilities in some made up events.
If we accept our reality and not leave ourselves for a false self we can defend ourselves against our own fantasies. Also realizing that the emotion of the fantasy is one we can generate ourselves with our real actions. But if a real deep and honest satisfying quality not the cheap feelings of fantasy!
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