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Jab to Jealousy - (2012)

We Can Not Honestly Believe…

We cannot honestly believe that restricting a person to only love, think of and communicate with ourselves is to make that person happy.

Jealousy believes that that is how the other person should behave and to top it off, be happy with.

Jealousy believes the other should be happy living in such a restricted way. In fact, the "I" of jealousy becomes very agitated when the other person does not abide by these expectations. Furthermore, jealousy feels very hurt and betrayed.

Oh the Heart…

The heart is like a bird! It is free and to cage the heart it is to subject it to something that is opposite to its nature, and this can only hurt. No bird is happy in a cage neither is any heart happy in a cage!


No One is Happy in a Cage!

We can't expect a person to be happy in a cage. To put a person in a cage is to force a person to be selfish and to quash the noble and generous impulses that come from the essence through the heart.

To feel in your heart and in your essence the impulse, yearning and capacity to help another, yet you must 'kill' that because a person close to you is jealous, really hurts and makes the heart and essence to ache and feel an intense lamentation.

How Blind is the Jealous Person!

We can not expect love back from a person when we put them in a cage with our jealousy, and make their heart and essence to ache.

By allowing the person freedom, allowing their heart and essence expression allows the person to feel the love in their heart and essence and that can only return love back to you, and therefore secure and increase the love between you.

Jealousy destroys love, ruins relationships and hurts both parties all because it is opposite to the nature of the heart.

Reflect Deeply so to Comprehend

Reflect deeply on that and a deep understanding of this will give jealousy along with the fiery lance of your Divine Mother one hell of a jab that will that leave that “I” dizzy for weeks.

End (2012).

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