So Good to Know
The emotional centre - the crazy elephant does exactly that
- overwhelm us from time to time! That is, produce such a high wave of intense
emotion that we feel overwhelmed.
So what is it to feel overwhelmed? Well we feel overwhelmed
when we see that the degree of emotion is something off our normal scale of
emotions, and it is something that we think that we don’t have the capacity to accommodate
in our system. In other words we “think that we can’t” deal with the emotions
or what we are faced with.
After a lot of experience of being overwhelmed, I say “we think
that we can’t” handle the emotions because when we are experiencing those emotions,
we are actually handling them, we are actually coping with them, we are holding
them within our system. But that mind you, is different to being able to
practically cope with the work load or whatever it may be. Feeling overwhelmed
is an emotional reaction.
It is like a tsunami that floods in but all waves and tsunamis
always always roll out!
Remedy – Delay
The easy to apply, and easy to remember remedy is: DELAY!
Feeling overwhelmed is like a tsunami, it rolls in destructively
but it rolls out. So if you just wait a little then it will roll out and things
will be very different.
Just delay! Just wait! Breathe! Trust! Know that it is a tsunami and then
just wait knowingly and with trust in the fact that it will always roll out.
End (2431).
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