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Gems to Calm the Loss/Slipping Away Feelings in Jealousy – (2463)

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The following gems when understood have a soothing effect, calming down the very intense and painful feelings of jealousy. So read on for an explanation of these gems and if you find them helpful add them to your remedy kit, to be taken out and applied when needed.


Fundamental Realisation

This is the first and biggest gem to understand.

We are an essence and our essence derives from a Monad. Here we are complete! No other person completes and no other person can unite that the essence that we are with our inner Being. What an essence really needs is the fusion with its inner Being, and that is our task alone.

Joining with someone or relating to someone well is wonderful but it does not unite our essence with our Being.

With or without a person we ‘are’, we radiate presence, we occupy an authentic and real existence, and once within our Being that existence, becomes ‘Being’.

Another person is exactly the same as us and comes into our life for a short while only so as to help us to achieve this and we help them to achieve the same.

Everyone is a ‘bird of flight’ in our life and us in theirs. What is permanent and always present, is our inner Being. Our inner Being never leaves us. It is with our inner Being that we really seek to marry. And that is the truest marriage as it never ends.

Of course we must love, but a love that is more to love than to be there needing love, waiting for love, unhappy without love etc. etc.

Real Love

Real love that is true will last and will always come back to you. It can not be lost. Of course, it can be strengthened, weakened and change form.

So knowing this about love, we can trust in its durability and its return.It is very much like a boomerang, that has a flight path of its own but returns true. 

Divine Mother Brings

Our inner Divine Mother brings friends and enemies into our life. Meaning that she can take people away from us and bring people back. If it so happens that a person distances themselves from us by no reason of our doing then it could well have been orchestrated by our inner Divinity. Showing us in some ways that we don’t 100% need that person or that closeness in our life and if we do need that closeness, the person will come back into our lives again.

Heart of Men in the Bible

Proverbs 21

“21The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.

22 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the Lord pondereth the hearts.”

These two verses from the bible tell us that it is the Being and the Law essentially that move the hearts of men in our favour or not in our favour.

So once again trust in our inner Being, if we are in another’s heart or not in another’s heart, it is because our Being has allowed it or made it possible.

If we are in another’s heart, relax and trust in your Being, in that It has put you there and It will keep you there. Many of the relationships that have a spiritual purpose behind them are ordained this way. That is, they are agreements between Monads and an entering of the other person into the heart of the other consecrates that agreement.

If we drop out of another’s heart, as we work more on ourselves and work to come closer to our inner Being things can change and we can find ourselves having restored what we had damaged, with perhaps harsh words etc.

Conclusion

Understanding these points and going over these points when the ego of jealousy is present in our human machine allows us to first sooth those mechanical and typical feelings of losing something, of anxiety or worry etc.

End (2463).

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