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Why We Feel Anxiety About Someone Dying – (2514)

A Tough One

Because deep within us somewhere is a dependence on that person for some protection in life.

Fear is there primarily to protect us in its strange way. So fear really screams when there is danger around or there is no protection from possible future dangers or difficulties.

Our parents, loved ones, relatives, friends etc. are all a source of protection from life’s dangers and difficulties for us.

This is because they love us and we feel this love and we feel deeply and insticnitively that love protects. Love also advises, guides, corrects and saves us and helps us out of any difficulty.


Remedy

To remedy this fear we have to see that we are capable and strong in life now and we can face and solve all the problems and difficulties with the help of our very own Being and essence.

Trust in your Being and essence as being able to get you through the troubles of life!

Transferring this trust to your Inner Being does not mean that you love your parents, relatives or friends less, or that you are leaving them, abandoning them or betraying them.

If you do feel this for a few seconds this is a 100% true indication that deep within your psychology you depend on them for protection of some kind and that is precisely why you feel anxious and scared.

You will feel differently if you focus now and evoke and warm your heart with trust in your inner Being! It will help you, it is strong and wise and It is in you!

With less fear in our system we will find that we can attend, serve and love our parents, relatives and friends better.

Sorry if this has been an awful post. But it is honestly what I am discovering and working on at the moment in my life.

End (2514).

Comments

  1. 74724 July 2018 at 09:21

    It’s a helpful post thank you, especially the reminder to trust our being.

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