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All the Ways to Find a Spouse - (2088)

Here are all the ways that I have people advise others about how to find a spouse for the Alchemical work. The most sensible ways are listed first.

Pray, Trust and Wait

Pray to one’s Being asking for what is needed to carry forward and complete His work and leave that delicate and important issue in His hands. Trust that He has heard and that because He wants His realisation He will bring to you all the is needed to so get it.

Then just wait for that time to come when the circumstances are such that you meet your future spouse.

The Being Trusts You – So Then You Find One

The Being within you may trust you and may leave the choice of your future spouse to you. So then you must carefully discern the person who is right for you. You have to make sure that your choice is one whom you can love and one who you can complete the work with.

Not someone who looks nice or has money or is a missionary and is someone that you don’t really feel you can love. Nor someone whom feel you can love but is useless for the work on themselves and useless to work with you in the second factor.


Do Nothing and Ideas and Impulses Surface

When it is tie for your Monad to carry His work forward He may well move you by sending impulses in your prayers and meditations of a particular person.

Then if that is so, ponder it carefully.

This is tricky though one must be calm, passive, receptive and patient because when the time is right, one does not know but the time will be right one day.

Try, Get it Wrong until You Get it Right

Meet everyone that you wish and by virtue of persistence you will get it right one time.

Give Up and Find One

Just give up and unexpectedly one day after you have given up on finding one and have even forgotten about it all, you will be involved in a circumstance where there the person is.

Then it is time to wake up and see what may develop.

Desire and Dream Away

Useless and full pain. Dream that someone who does not like you will change and like you and care about you and want to marry you. Have many dreams and astral projections abut he person, dreaming away how they like you and how there is hope etc. etc. Then write some letters and emails and get a slap in the face: a nice wake up call!

Think that You Don’t Need one

Easy convince yourself that you can do a lot being single and that you don’t need a spouse and you are fine and complete as you are. This works because you will desire to go ahead so much that you will get stuck and you then you will see that you need the Alchemy to progress and so you will try and find one if it is not too late.

End (2088).

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