Critical Point
This is a critical point to do with lust. Lust as an ego
makes people into objects. And from this point onwards unfolds the processes of
lust, namely desire. Which is what drives lust.
Sexuality is About Real People, Lust is About Objects
Desire
If there is desire, then it is because an object has been
created in our mind. A person has been converted into an object in our mind.
Possession Comes from Objectifying
Logically if something has become an object we desire to
possess it. We only wish to possess objects.
You know, we only ever desire objects. We don’t desire
people because we know that we can’t desire a person. It just won’t work.
People always have to go. They may stay a while with us but at some point they
have to leave, whether it be death or their destiny, but they must go as do we.
Can’t Desire a Person
We can not desire people, deep down we know that. This is because
we know that a person has their own will, their own Being, their own likes and
dislikes and that we can’t ever really control another person to the 49th
region of their mind, because it is impossible (how can you do it – you can’t) and
because we don’t even know the 49 levels of our own mind, so how can we control
another if we are not capable of controlling ourselves. Our desire to control
shows us straight we can’t control our own selves anyway.
Objects don’t Have Feelings
If we see another person as an object we don’t see them as
having feelings or will or intellect. This leads to so many mistakes. It is a
huge, huge oversight, a huge deviation from reality to see a person as an
object, that is without feelings. This is where we lose respect for another and
this is how we know we have converted a person into an object.
Remedy
As soon as you see the person as a person, not as an object,
something will change in you. Respect will also be born.
Furthermore, see the person as a real person, going to the toilet,
getting sick, vomiting, getting angry, making smells, being negative, being
pessimistic and being in a bad mood just like all human beings do. Then the
previous shift will deepen.
Lust does not Like the Real – But the Real is the Real and it is all that we
Have
Lust converts people into objects constantly and so we have
to constantly reverse this process, by seeing that the person is not an object
but a person.
Lust does not go with the real, it likes to go with its
fantasy, which comes from focussing on features or body parts which appear to look
perfect. But upon closer examination they are not. Nothing is perfect in the
body.
Lust exaggerates the feature or features and then fantasises
overlooking completely all the different realities. Then what fuels lust is
this fantasy.
When people ‘go out’ taking their lust with them, they always
try to hide the real: their scars, obesity, pimples, less attractive features
because they know lust does not like what smacks of the real.
End (1804).
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