Introduction
That of sexualising, i.e. habitually involving the sexual
centre in the matters of life is a unique characteristic of lust. It is the
intellectual or mental part of lust that does this. Meaning that our mind is responsible.
There are moments though in infrequent when the sexual
centre seems to operate by itself. But as I have said they are rare, and usually
the sexual centre is forced into operation because of the mind.
It is a wrong use of our imagination actually. It is a use
that makes us sleep. IF we wont to wake up we need to have a good grip on our
imagination, i.e. not allow it to be used to make lull us to sleep, especially
with the processes of lust.
Inherent Truth
Lust principally sexualises people, conversations, words,
gestures, looks, movements, objects etc. to just name a few.
The stronger a person’s lust the more a person sexualises
things and the wider is the scope of the things it sexualises. There are people
that sexualise nearly everything
This sexualising of things may be an inversion of the fact
that most things are sexual in life. When any two opposites combine and produce
a result or a third factor, that is sex, and the result, the third factor may
have nothing at all to do with the sexual act between a male and female human
being.
Can it be Stopped?
Can this mental action be stopped? If it were to be stopped
many processes of lust would not unfold and then many embarrassing: situations,
looks, words, unintended jokes and associations, blushing etc. would all be
avoided.
This being something mental can be changed. But it will not
change unless our thinking or our mind changes. Because by itself our mind does
not change.
Awareness: First Port of Call
The first port of call in stopping this is awareness. We
have to know that we are doing it. Once we know that our mind is doing it we
can actually use our will to stop it.
Understanding that our sexualisations are not necessary for,
i.e. out of place we can much easily stop it. When we see that these
sexualisation serve to feed and continue the various fantasies of the egos of
lust we can also stop that process or mental action.
End (1814).
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