Disclaimer
First of all, this question can only truthfully be answered
by someone who has dissolved lust. So, we are talking about someone who is at
the top of the second mountain or very close to it.
However, we can get a bit of an idea about it. This post is
just a bit of an idea.
General Answer
The general answer to this question is that one would have
the essence trapped in the various egos of lust that make up the defect of lust,
return to his or her essence and consciousness.
In the essence that returns and joins the already free
percentage of consciousness that the person has, there would be many values of
our Being, that while they were trapped in lust were functioning in a
conditioned way.
So, then the way that we can answer this question in a particular
way would be to mention the values that would return to our essence in a free
and unconditioned state.
Particular Answer
Function of Sexuality Restored
As one dissolves lust the function of sexuality is gradually
given over to the Being in the person. Gradually the Being inside the person
and even the essence of the person directs the processes related to sexuality
within the person.
Due to the presence of unfulfilled desires and curiosities people
do not surrender their sexuality to their inner Being. They hold onto the ego’s
use of sexuality because they believe that is the only way that those desires
will be fulfilled.
In the above cases, the remedy is to transmute or transform those
desires and trust in one’s inner Being and surrender the issue at the centre of
those desires to find them in one’s inner Being. Make it an issue between
yourself and your Being.
Remember it is not really sensations that a person wants but
something more emotional behind them. Find that emotional lack or need or
something that seeks fulfillment and you will have the lever with which to do
something real in this regard.
Energy
For certain as with any ego that we begin to dissolve, we
liberate energy. The more we dissolve and ego the more energy we have available
to do altruistic things and many other things for that matter. You may find
that as you work on the egos of lust you naturally have more time for others,
you become more altruistic and help others and are overall happier and have
more energy to practice, read, study, pray even exercise the body to keep it
healthy.
Karma Paid
The more we work on the egos of lust of course the more we
pay the karma that these egos have caused us to accumulate.
The suffering we go through while dissolving these egos is the
payment of the karma related to these egos. The lack of progress when we try hard,
the frustration, the suffering for having these egos etc. is part of that
karmic payment.
If we don’t pay that karma now by dissolving these egos we
will have to pay it at one point and with involuntary pain, which is always
much worse. It is always easier to pay things voluntarily.
Space
When we dissolve an ego we free space up in our psychology,
our mind, our emotions and our life. This space is then filled with the essence
and with activities in our life that are productive, positive and usually are
about working more on ourselves for humanity i.e. the three factors.
If you are unhappy with your work, work hard on dissolving
any ego, lust is very good, and when you weaken it naturally you will have more
space and energy to improve your work.
Time
If follows on logically that when you work on any ego because
you free energy, will, space, mind, emotion and word you will naturally free up
time.
This new free time or spare time can be used intelligently
to work in the three factors. When we have more essence we want to naturally
use it and that means work on ourselves by making good use of the time that we
have.
Happiness
When hypnotised by the egos of lust we think that the
procedures and results of lust will make us happy. But the universal truth of
everyone is that it does not. It may yes for a very short while but soon after
it does not.
Lust is about getting things that can not satisfy us and so
it searches for more and more all the while it is never satisfied. We can not
be satisfied with the things that lust provides or gets. This dissatisfaction
drives the person and makes the person a salve and that is what causes everyone
who is in this predicament tremendous suffering.
Intimacy
Lust keeps us on the surface of ourselves, It does not
permit us to enter deep into ourselves. Even in lust driven relationships both
parties do not know each other. They only know a bit about the body of the other
and just the feelings the sensations in their body and the accompanying emotions.
So then, it is the same inside of ourselves. With lust we are
forced to remain on the surface of ourselves and our life. It is difficult to
concentrate much less turn our sights inwardly and travel within to investigate
our psychology or converse with the intimate parts of our consciousness or own
selves.
Also, lust does not stop from bringing conflict within oneself
and within one’s three brains. With conflict there can be no intimacy and no introspection.
Just as it happens in relationships while there is conflict there is no
intimacy.
Peace
Naturally peace will invade the person as they are now more inline
with the ways, truths and principles of their inner Being and of course the
work and the Law.
Being inline with these three things is what brings peace
which is the absence of worry. It is actually trust, because when we are inline
we can trust that nothing unexpected unfortunate to ‘bad’ is going to happen to
us.
Honesty
Lust is about lying all the time. To ourselves and to
others. Lust tells us so many lies and we are stupid enough to believe them. When
we work on the egos of lust, the first thing we are going to do is stop
believing the lies of lust. As we do that we are being honest with ourselves,
honest and realistic I would say.
With less lust to cover and protect we are going to be more honest
with others.
Connection
Obviously as a natural consequence of being more honest,
more intimate with ourselves we are going to cultivate more connection with
ourselves.
When we are more in tune or connected or more in touch with
the deeper parts of our selves such as our own essence we can connect to the same
in others and the deeper the part we connect with others the deeper the connection.
The essence to essence connection is the deepest connection
that two people can have. That is what I would call connection. If you are in
touch with your essence, that is you connect to it regularly and know it and
can bring it to the forefront of your psychology you can use it to connect to
another person’s essence. But if you do not connect to your essence it is difficult
to connect to another person’s essence and so you can only connect personality
to personality or ego to ego and that is superficial and fraught with pain, misunderstandings
and difficulties.
Lust blocks the essence and so does not allow a deep
connection with ourselves and others.
More Interiorization
With more connection, more honesty, more space and energy we
can travel deeper within ourselves. With less of the egos of lust ego providing
a barrier to stop us from connecting to ourselves we can finally travel deeper
within ourselves beyond the surface.
Less Self-Deception
Self-deception is about believing the lies that the ego
tells us. It is also about knowing that something is not right and then
covering it up to ourselves, making ourselves believe that it will be ok when
we know deep down that it is not.
The more we dissolve lust the more this activity of making ourselves
fall asleep into the hypnotic processes of lust will disappear.
Less Subconscious
All the lies, ideas, concepts, fantasies, images and strange
things come from our subconscious, As we work on lust we will encounter them and
know them. As we know them they will become more worked on and they will be
taken from the subconscious and as we transform them they will become light.
Lust relies on the subconscious a lot. The history, the
past, the jokes, the strategies, the hidden intentions, the seductions, the
words of double meaning, the looks, the ways of dressing, the ways of walking,
speaking, acting etc.
Less Desire
The central point of lust is desire isn’t it? That is what
compels the mind to think and the emotions and actions to feel and act. The
desire is what obsesses and fixates people.
Remember desire fulfils the function of fulfilling a lack or
a need. We have the desire to acquire what we feel we lack.
Filling those lacks from within, that is in our essence and
in our Being, finding a way within ourselves to do it we can gradually make the
desire to fill those lacks redundant. Then desire begins to lose its function
and diminishes.
With less desire there is freedom and peace and a calm
control over oneself.
Will Increased
With less desire we have more will. This is because desire is
conditioned will. With more will several doors are open to do marvellous
things.
Conclusion: Choose!
Seeing a little bit of what we can get from working on the dissolution
of the egos of lust, naturally and logically we are presented within our consciousness
with a choice: turn away and forget or embrace and walk forward.
Even if we don’t want to choose, we still chose. Forgetting
about having to choose is a choice. Look at all the benefits of dissolving lust
and then look at lust and with the contrast be conscious, be informed and know
what you are choosing. Happiness, peace, freedom, order or pain, fear, anxiety,
shame, regret etc.
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