Introduction
In lust there is a certain lack of maturity. This can be because
we created much of our lust when we were younger and that lust has remained the
same while our bodies have become adult. However, our sexuality has not matured
quite the same as our body has.
Remained Petty
Many of our egos are like that, we created or strengthened
them when we were children and they remain the same while we grow physically.
Then being adults we cry, get into a fit, storm off just like we were children.
This is true of our lust.
Lust does not mature it remains petty. I say petty in the
sense of it being impulsive, wanting things instantly, not being able to accept
no, being fixated and fascinated with body parts, objectifying people, being possessive
etc.
Maturity
Maturity would mean to be adult enough to say ‘no’ to
ourselves, to not accept unrealistic fantasies, to have a vision of people
being whole people and not objects or a collection of fascinating body parts, to
be able to see the whole wide picture and not a tunnel vision version which is
only pleasure.
Adults weigh up consequences but children do not. Within
lust there is still a very childish outlook that maturity can be transform.
Obviously the more we embrace true sexuality the more we draw closer to our
inner Being and obviously the more mature we become.
Maturity allows us to see things related to sexuality as
natural and simple. Being embarrassed and shocked are things that children do.
Accepting the transmutation means that we have some maturity
already, because we are able to see deeply enough into sexuality, that is see
beyond the surface of pleasure and look towards the Being. Because we have maturity
already we just need to extend it further to assist transform the childish
outlooks, concepts and perspectives of the egos of lust.
End (1810).
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