One of the Possibilities
One experience of separating the “I’” of jealousy from
oneself can among many possibilities mean that one senses the usual unfair
protest, the usual feelings of being behind in love and consideration and the usual
surprise and irritation of an unspoken rule being broken… and then to call our
previous work of comprehension into effect.
Upon calling our previous comprehension of jealousy we
recognise that those feelings come from the “I” of jealousy and it is the one
that is suffering, and me – I am with the free essence and I am ok and the
relationship is ok.
The relationship is not going to suffer or be downgraded and
I don’t need to be first in the relationship, I rather need to love, and love
deeply my interior Being – which doing this is of higher value than feeling
painfully jealous.
Even the concerns of jealousy do not need to be tended to, because
nothing has been done wrong on our part, only the “I” of jealousy is feeling
hurt and so I do not need to worry about the relationship being damaged. In
fact I am improving the relationship by separating jealousy and trusting other
and giving freedom to the other.
Plus to fall into jealousy is set in motion a process that
is only going to end up in harming the other.
Separated
With all of this being understood jealousy is displaced or
if not it remains in the background but a such a distance and intensity that it
does not bother one. There it remains separated from our human machine and
psyche until we decide to believe in it or follow it again.
End (2527).
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