Does Incorporating Others Mean Displacement or Rejection?

Does Incorporating Others Mean Displacement or Rejection? – (1106)

Short Answer

No!

Yes it Does!

Ok it may mean that you do not occupy the position that you use all of the time now, but it certainly does not have to mean that you feel rejected and are less included!

If one transforms such a situation what one can arrive at is a union of likes with more inclusion and with more acceptance.

Usually

Usually we get upset, jealous, envious, scared etc. when another person is brought into the picture, whether that is in a family, a workplace, a certain group or a relationship etc. etc. and we go against the poor person bringing that new person into the picture (if it is not us bringing that person in).

The Key – Fill in the Difference

The key here is to equal the differences, because that is the cause of the problem. The problem disappears when we like just as much as everyone else does, the new person coming into the picture. Doing this integrates you into the picture and earns you a new friend where you later are going to win a place in that person’s affections and life and where we had to step back we get to step in, just into a different door.

Ill-Will Closes Doors and Good Will Opens Doors

Ill-will closes doors, especially those that we want open, good will on the other hand even though one door half shuts, good will allows us to find and see that a new door can be opened and what’s more it takes us to the new door and allows to walk through it.

End (1106).

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