Short Answer
No!
Yes it Does!
Ok it may mean that you do not occupy the position that you
use all of the time now, but it certainly does not have to mean that you feel rejected
and are less included!
If one transforms such a situation what one can arrive at is
a union of likes with more inclusion and with more acceptance.
Usually
Usually we get upset, jealous, envious, scared etc. when
another person is brought into the picture, whether that is in a family, a
workplace, a certain group or a relationship etc. etc. and we go against the poor
person bringing that new person into the picture (if it is not us bringing that
person in).
The Key – Fill in the Difference
The key here is to equal the differences, because that is
the cause of the problem. The problem disappears when we like just as much as
everyone else does, the new person coming into the picture. Doing this integrates
you into the picture and earns you a new friend where you later are going to win
a place in that person’s affections and life and where we had to step back we
get to step in, just into a different door.
Ill-Will Closes Doors and Good Will Opens Doors
Ill-will closes doors, especially those that we want open, good
will on the other hand even though one door half shuts, good will allows us to
find and see that a new door can be opened and what’s more it takes us to the
new door and allows to walk through it.
End (1106).
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