Introduction
Sometimes we may be in a difficult situation and we want to
do something about it, but we don’t want to let the ego in us do that
“something about it”, and so we stall. We feel hesitant, unsure and in the
meantime things are still the same or getting worse and there is a pressure
building up inside of us.
My hope with this post is that it can help in providing some
ideas when it could be a good time to do something.
There are People that…
There are people that treat others in various different
ways. Sometimes that may treat you well and other times they may treat you
badly. Sometimes these people are those that can dish out a lot of harsh
treatment and expect to be treated well all the time in return, and when we
treat them just a little like they have treated us, things get ten times worse
and we get a ten times harsher treatment back. There are certainly people like
around, even in the Gnostic studies (you may say how can that be, I say easy,
they just need to work harder on their egos of pride).
Such people would not stand for a minute or two really the
treatment that they dish out to others being directed towards them. Some
awakening in needed in that area.
When what we Give is not Conditioned by what we Receive
We normally only give to others when they give something to
us or they are nice to us. As soon as they are not nice or they get distant or
they treat us harshly we stop treating them well and we withdraw what we
usually give them, which could be material things, our time and even some of
our values such as our patience, our understanding, our psychological work and
even our tolerance etc.
This is an enormous struggle and is only really consistently
won when there exits inside of us a structure that is made up of essence or
consciousness. Or we are able to answer these events with our essence, because
the essence or consciousness are the ones that give of themselves and do not
depend on receiving to dictate what to give. The nature of the essence is to
give it is only the ego that is relative in nature that feels happy to give
once it receives.
Let’s imagine though that we are able to do that, give
without receiving, there will come a time though where the situation can go
beyond a certain line where there is just one person keeping their line of good
treatment and the other continues with their nasty and obnoxious treatment and
behavior. So then, what do we do and when do we do it?
But just before I answer that I want to say that we can keep
our line of treatment easily by email, text message but in person it is more
difficult, yet it can be done and to do it one must work resentment and be
drawing upon one’s essence all the time, compensating the unbalance between
giving and receiving from inside of oneself. For example, the ardent yearning
to establish one’s centre of gravity in the essence to be able to decide to
keep one’s line of behavior and actually do it is enough at times to compensate
the imbalance from inside.
So When is Enough Enough?
Short Answer – The
End Result!
How is that?
That’s right when one sees the end result of this imbalance
is going to be bad then one can set things straight so to speak and perhaps ask
to be treated in one way only or to ask what is going on and to clear things
up.
For example, if we see that this harsh treatment is going to
ruin the relationship or harm one person or another, the end result is
obviously going to be bad so it is time to do something.
The less we attack the other and keep to the facts, stick to
what is reasonable and remain calm we can actually turn things around and reach
some understanding and solve the situation or at least make it better.
End (1100).
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