Introduction
We may feel hurt or sad or like we are missing something or
losing something when another person does not pay interest to us.
Obviously in such a situation we are wanting that person to
take an interest in us, and part of the reason why we feel so upset is because
of this expectation.
Reality Says they Don’t
We can’t say that people should be interested in us. People
should only be doing what they are doing. We associate people not being
interested in us as not loving us or not wanting us to be important in their
lives. With this thought we feel very sad etc.
Can be Overcome
But if we generate our love for our Being we can overcome
that.
We can overcome it because when we generate love for the
being we are filling a gap in ourselves. When we generate love we are
generating love from within our core, what happens with the ego of self-love is
that it is made redundant because we are generating the same love for ourselves
or our Being as self-love does. Self-love generates love for ourselves but
based on others loving us or liking us, and when others don’t love us the ego
of self-love does the opposite generates feelings of self-debasement or self-loathing
etc.
However, the way we are generating love differs, this way of
generating love comes from within us independent of any other factor, though
with self-love we generate love dependent on others loving us. We always only
generate ourselves the love that we feel for another person or for our Real
Being or ourselves. The trick is how it is generated.
Conclusion
The love we feel for our Being is independent of others. We
are not losing love, because we have it in our heart and consciousness and furthermore
our Being is made up of it.
End (1074).
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